It takes intentionality and realistic expectations to connect the dots between your dreams and your daily lived experience. These goal-setting activities aim to be that connective tissue for you as a singer.
(6-minute read time)
Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash
“A dream is something that you want to happen but is not fully under your control. A dream has outside influences and therefore you cannot guarantee that it will happen. It is just a wish. Goals are something you can set and achieve because you have full control of them. Goals increase the chances of dreams happening.”
Dr Steve Peters, “The Chimp Paradox”
SUMMARY
This concept and set of activities is intended to be a springboard that you can use to build your own habits around goal-setting. Inspiration and momentum is the intention, not rigidity and frustration. Find your own way.
- Write down your dreams
- Brainstorm activities that could bring you closer to your dreams
- Rewrite your activities as macro-goals
- Break your macro-goals down into micro-goals
- Add the micro-goals to your diary
PHASE 1 – DREAMS
In theory, our dreams are allowed to be nebulous and out-of-touch with reality. But in practice, grounding them in the realm of possibility is much more fun…because it translates into lived experience instead of remaining as wishful thinking.
How do you dream? Do you use a vision board? Write down a purpose with objectives? Journal freely about your aspirations? Have a life coach or trainer to hold you accountable for planning and completion?
Whichever mode works for you, see what it is like to consider what you would insert into the blanks in these statements:
- I hope that my music/singing will give me __________.
- I hope that my music/singing will give others ________.
- When this occurs, I hope I will feel __________.
Here is an example of one of my current answers:
- I hope that my music/singing will give me a flexible & adaptable mind.
- I hope that my music/singing will give others a sense of being understood as they recognise themselves in the music I share.
- When this occurs, I hope I will feel peace and satisfaction from the happy dance between challenge and progress.
Ok – now it’s your turn.
Take some time to dream without judgement. Then brainstorm what sorts of activities might be involved.
Using my example above, my activities could include routine practice; identifying the song stories I feel called to tell; and making the most of opportunities to perform.
Here are two other examples:
Dream | Activity Brainstorm |
Write an album of original songs | Classes on song writing Learning a second instrument Keeping a notebook for song lyrics Active listening of other songwriters |
Be cast in a particular role in a musical | Vocal styling techniques to fit the genre Technical training for the song needs Accent work to fit the character Acting training |
There is no rush in moving onto the next phase. Take as long as you need to dream and allow clarity to shape your path. Think of it like a Map smart phone app…it is incapable of giving you directions until you select a destination.
When you have written down some big picture ideas, it is time to translate that into practical goals. The following activities will enable you to get more specific and drill down into the various levels of planning.
PHASE 2 – MACRO GOALS
“being large, thick, or exceptionally prominent”
This is a definition of “macro” from the Merriam-Webster dictionary that applies to our goal-setting extremely well. Since it is easy to set goals that are complicated, over-reaching and unattainable, choosing descriptors that keep its features “exceptionally prominent” is vital. Our next step of breaking our dream down into achievable and accessible chunks is at the heart of making steady progress.
Here are two exercises you could try as a springboard to creating your macro-goals.
MAGIC GOALS
You’ve all heard of “smart” goals, but how about “magic” goals? This framework (thanks to Christopher Sutton of Musical U) is a creative way to shape your macro-goals.
M – Musical – Does this goal feel as fun and exciting as music is?
A – Attainable – Can I really see myself achieving this goal in a reasonable amount of time?
G – Growth-oriented – Will reaching this goal help me grow into the musician I dream to be?
I – Interesting – Am I actually interested in reaching this goal?
C – Clear – Is my goal clear enough that I will know with certainty whether I’ve reached it?
CASE STUDY
Let’s return to one of my dreams and you can follow me through a goal-setting exercise.
My Dream = I hope that my music/singing will give me a flexible & adaptable mind.
I have written two macro-goal activities for this dream and will now put them through the MAGIC test to see if they are going to truly help me or not.
Macro-goal 1 – regular yet spontaneous practice that promotes flow and mindfulness
- M – spontaneity promotes fun; regularity offers a day with music practice sprinkled through all of its nooks and crannies.
- A – I will know if I attain the regularity, but perhaps there is a lack of clarity about the substance of the practice.
- G – this goal will definitely lead me to grow as a musician, but definition around what the practice sessions contains is needed.
- I – I am absolutely interested in reaching this goal because I have experienced it in the past and I miss it; particularly the flow state that comes from the right challenges.
- C – do I need to define “regular” to make it clearer? Regular could mean once a week but I know that is not what I mean in this context.
Conclusion – this goal statement needs tweaking! I need to define “regular” and “practice”. Eg, every second day for ten minutes per instrument; I will practice skills that are new or inconsistent.
Macro-goal 2 – use the language of jazz theory to expand my improvising
- M – it is perhaps not fun and exciting yet because I’m not sure where to start
- A – I can see myself attaining this goal once I have a map to follow
- G – I always dreamed of grasping jazz more given my classical background, so it does feel like a missing piece of my puzzle
- I – the music as language element of this goal is very interesting to me
- C – again it is lacking in specifics that will define when it is “complete”
Conclusion – I need to adjust the goal to include the “how” and “what”. Eg, I will do the Sharny Russell jazz self-accompaniment course and apply what I learn to accompanying myself to sing “The Best is Yet to Come”.
SELF-REFLECTION GOAL-SETTING
Another way to work out what your macro-goals are is to do a self-reflection exercise in the context of your dream statements.
Consider the skills and resources you require to mobilise your activities. Make a dot point list of them under these categories:
- Technique – breath management, resonance, registration, articulation, styles & effects, practice…
- Artistry – interpretation of lyrics, storytelling, style authenticity, expression, tone colour…
- Performance – mic technique, stage presence, movement, management of nerves…
Sketch a continuum like this and put a circle on it to show where you think you are right now in each category.
Next, answer these questions for each category.
- What would it take for you to move along the spectrum one notch?
- How long is it likely to take, considering the realities of your lifestyle?
- What do you need/want from your coach to support this goal?
Use your reflection insights to flesh out the activities you brainstormed. You are starting to get some serious traction to bring your dreams to life.
PHASE 3 – MICRO-GOALS
This level of goal-setting is where you get into the nitty gritty of creating tasks that enable you to chip away at the work. You want this to feel relevant, enjoyable and transformative.
The key here is to make the steps as action-oriented and singular as you need.
We are all different, so take a moment to consider how you work best. Is it enough to set yourself a micro-goal that says “Organise your practice space and resources by Monday.”
Or do you need smaller steps? Like this:
- Tidy and clean the corner of the lounge room for 15 minutes on Thursday.
- Move music stand, sheet music, pencil and eraser to that corner on Friday – 5 minutes.
- Transfer audio files to music playlist on phone on Saturday – could take half an hour.
And so on, you get the idea.
Here is an example of a model that will help you identify your micro-goals for any given macro-goal.
DISCOVER-DEVELOP-DELIVER
- Discover what you’re doing
This stage is the deeply necessary “what” phase of a new task. What tools and resources will you need? Time? Space? Equipment? Support? Like a detective gathering evidence, the picture will slowly take shape as I explore it. - Develop how you’re going to do it
This is the gloriously messy and curious play phase. Trying a range of ways of doing things is incredibly valuable to the brain. - Learn to deliver what you developed
This is exactly what it sounds like. Now that I know what I am doing and I have tried a bunch of ways to mess around with it, how will that be distilled into something I share with other people?
CASE STUDY
By way of example, if my macro-goal was learning a new song, this break-down into micro-goals might include:
DISCOVER | DEVELOP | DELIVER |
|
|
|
PHASE 4 – SCHEDULE A REPEAT
This process is usually not a “one and done” scenario. As you find your own way to do your goal-setting, notice the rhythms and time intervals that work for you.
For instance, if you start to neglect your micro-goals, it could be time to revisit some of the steps. Perhaps you chose steps that were too big for you, or they weren’t motivating you in the right way. Don’t feel guilty. Change the map.
As you get used to how long those intervals are, start planning in advance to set aside time to dream and plan.
If you enjoyed these tips and ideas, why not sign up for the Glengrove Studio newsletter.
To subscribe, click here or click on the NEWSLETTER SIGN-UP button at the top of this webpage.
SOURCES
Gilkey, C. (2019). Start Finishing: How to go from idea to done. Sounds True, Colorado
Helding, L. (2020). The Musician’s Mind: teaching, learning and performance in the age of brain science. Rowman & Littlefield, Maryland
Peters, S. “The Chimp Paradox”, as quoted by Line Hilton in the BAST Podcast Ep 33
Sutton, C. https://www.musical-u.com/learn/add-some-magic-to-your-ear-training-goals/